Your views on this headstone!

Discussion in 'War Grave Photographs' started by spidge, Jun 22, 2011.

  1. spidge

    spidge RAAF RESEARCHER

    I had not noticed this previously - Do you think this headstone is incorrect and should be changed?

    R.E.Cox  R.A.F. (Large).JPG
     
  2. canuck

    canuck Closed Account

    Not if the family wanted it that way.
     
  3. BFBSM

    BFBSM Very Senior Member

    They are different names! So I should think some clarification is needed.

    And we have had this discussion before, as it is a CWGC grave it should comply with their regs.
     
  4. spidge

    spidge RAAF RESEARCHER

    Not if the family wanted it that way.

    Hi Canuck,

    I did not name my query however it is in reference to the "of Tasmania" on the headstone. I have only ever seen "of Australia".

    All CWGC instances (as I am aware) of this state "of Australia", "of Canada" "of New Zealand" etc.

    Tasmania is not a country of the Commonwealth but a state (you say province) of Australia.

    In this context, is it correct?
     
  5. spidge

    spidge RAAF RESEARCHER

    They are different names! So I should think some clarification is needed.

    And we have had this discussion before, as it is a CWGC grave it should comply with their regs.

    I am not sure who this other Airman is who is honoured here. I have checked the CWGC website and only came up with this (below) for that name.

    Somebody may be able to enlighten me to this association if he is in fact one and the same person. There is other wording on the urn however it is indecipherable.


    In Memory of
    Pilot Officer JAMES DOAN CODY

    40366, 108 Sqdn., Royal Air Force
    who died age 23
    on 31 October 1939
    Son of Capt. Fabian B. Cody and Gertrude L. Cody, of Windsor, Ontario, Canada.
    Remembered with honour
    CAVERSFIELD (ST. LAURENCE) CHURCHYARD.

    Personally, I do not have a problem with the two names other than being curious of the association (from a research respective) and whether this is a post war J.D. Cody or the one buried at Caversfield (St. Laurence) Churchyard being duplicated by the family/friends etc.
     
  6. Ron Goldstein

    Ron Goldstein WW2 Veteran WW2 Veteran

    Geoff

    As you say, a bit of a mystery there.

    Have you ever written to the CWGC and if so what sort of helpful response do you get from them when one raises a matter like this ?

    Ron
     
  7. spider

    spider Very Senior Member

    I believe the relatives of the deceased could ask what they wanted on the headstone outside the normal CWGC criteria.
     
  8. spider

    spider Very Senior Member

    Graves
    Individual graves are marked by uniform headstones, differentiated only by their inscriptions: the national emblem or regimental badge, rank, name, unit, date of death and age of each casualty is inscribed above an appropriate religious symbol and a more personal dedication chosen by relatives. Where there is risk of earth movement, graves are marked instead by bronze plaques on low pedestals.

    :: CWGC ::
     
  9. bofors

    bofors Senior Member

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  11. Peter Bennett

    Peter Bennett Peter Bennett

    I visited this churchyard in 2005 and I have just been looking through my photo archive.

    It is clear that somehow the private memorial urn to Cody has been misplaced on the grave of Cox.
     
  12. CL1

    CL1 116th LAA and 92nd (Loyals) LAA,Royal Artillery

    Hello Geoff

    I took the photo.

    I would assume it has just been placed on the wrong grave whilst they have been grass cutting.
    I can pop in there an place it on the correct grave.


    regards
    Clive

    apologies see that it is re Tasmania on headstone
     
  13. Jonathan Ball

    Jonathan Ball It's a way of life.

    Graves
    Individual graves are marked by uniform headstones, differentiated only by their inscriptions: the national emblem or regimental badge, rank, name, unit, date of death and age of each casualty is inscribed above an appropriate religious symbol and a more personal dedication chosen by relatives. Where there is risk of earth movement, graves are marked instead by bronze plaques on low pedestals.

    :: CWGC ::

    From this would I be right in thinking that '(Of Tasmania)' is the personal dedication from his Parents? If so, then in my opinion someone at the CWGC used his initiative and moved it from the base of the headstone to a more prominent position.

    Change it? I'm sure if his Parents ever saw it they would have been delighted that their boy, so far from home, was commemorated in this way. If it was good enough for them and the CWGC then it's good enough for me.
     
  14. Jonathan Ball

    Jonathan Ball It's a way of life.

    Hello Geoff

    I took the photo.

    I would assume it has just been placed on the wrong grave whilst they have been grass cutting.
    I can pop in there an place it on the correct grave.


    regards
    Clive

    Clive

    When did you take the photo? The Urn appears to be from a family plot. Could the original stone have been damaged in some way or toppled over?
     
  15. CL1

    CL1 116th LAA and 92nd (Loyals) LAA,Royal Artillery

    hello Jonathan
    last year
    the plot is on a private estate
    and well looked after
     
  16. Jonathan Ball

    Jonathan Ball It's a way of life.

    Thanks Clive

    As you say, looks like someone forgot to put it back after cutting the grass.
     
  17. BFBSM

    BFBSM Very Senior Member

    Having read all of that, IMHO, I dont think anything is necessary apart from moving the urn back to James Cody's grave.

    Mark
     
  18. spidge

    spidge RAAF RESEARCHER

    Hello Geoff

    I took the photo.

    I would assume it has just been placed on the wrong grave whilst they have been grass cutting.
    I can pop in there an place it on the correct grave.


    regards
    Clive

    apologies see that it is re Tasmania on headstone

    Clive,

    You do lots of photos, have you seen of anything but "of" the country?

    I was looking at the wrong line and didn't notice it was the same cemetery although I included the right one. Cody is in Plot 1 so I think you would e right. I would say it has been returned to its rightful place by now.

    Cheers

    Geoff
     
  19. spidge

    spidge RAAF RESEARCHER

    Geoff

    As you say, a bit of a mystery there.

    Have you ever written to the CWGC and if so what sort of helpful response do you get from them when one raises a matter like this ?

    Ron

    Hi Ron,

    The response is always cordial and the error (s) corrected either on the file or the headstone replaced.


    Cheers

    Geoff
     
  20. Paul Reed

    Paul Reed Ubique

    I have seen this on a grave of a US citizen where it mentions his State. If I find the picture I will post it.

    This was obviously the wishes of the family, and as such should be respected.
     

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